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Abuse/Childhood - Emotional, Physical,
Sexual:
Recovery from childhood
abuse involves a grieving process around the loss of
childhood and a recognition of the extent of the trauma that
was incurred. Clients often experience symptoms that are
components of
posttraumatic stress
disorder or mimic anxiety
and
depression. The objective is to move
beyond the shame, guilt and anger surrounding the past and
develop mature adult coping strategies, and healthy
boundaries within relationships that allow for greater
intimacy as an adult.
Addictions - Chemical, Sexual:
Tackling addictions
requires developing an astute awareness of the signs, symptoms
and environmental/psychological triggers that precipitate
engaging in addictive behavior. Finding new, alternative
solutions for coping with stressful events or emotions is
essential to the process of recovery along with taking
full responsibility for your behavior. A sound recovery plan
may include use of a twelve step or sixteen step model (see
below) combined with cognitive therapy and family origin work.
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Charlotte Kasl's sixteen step approach to
recovery blends cognitive, holistic, spiritual, and
empowerment techniques to recover form addictions including
co-dependency.
Co-Dependency:
Recovery from co-dependency envelopes gaining a clear sense of
self and becoming less focused on the actions/motivations of
others and/or taking cues from the world at large as to how to
conduct yourself. This entails an in depth exploration of
family history, values, and expectations that have shaped your
personality along with establishing healthy boundaries and
moderate responses to people and situations. The recovery
process dovetails with that describe for addictions.
Depression/Anxiety:
Living a full, satisfying life while managing depression and
anxiety requires developing a healthy lifestyle including
dietary, exercise and social components. Employing cognitive
techniques to refute negative self talk, and establishing
realistic expectations is essential in establishing a sense of
well-being. In certain circumstances medication is warranted
to alleviate symptoms and promote effective use of therapy.
Intimacy:
Attaining and sustaining
intimacy in relationships entails balancing your needs
and wants along with those of the other person's. The goal is
to feel a deep sense of connection with others while
maintaining boundaries and a sense of individuality.
Sometimes this requires exploration and resolution your past
relationship history along with the development of
communication skills so that you can express your
vulnerability and at the same time feel respected within a
relationship.
Life
Transitions/Life phase:
Achieving a successful transition whether it be environmental
i.e. work or relocation; or personal i.e. mid-life or
postpartum, involves adjustment and acceptance of your new
role. Establishment of new goals and a positive outlook
is essential to moving from one phase to the next. Education
regarding what you can expect in the your near future along
with therapeutic support can help provide some solid ground
while you are undergoing rapid growth and life altering
change.
Personal
Growth/Spirituality:
Expanding your world, options, and life views are the
hallmarks of personal and spiritual growth. Self-actualization
involves confronting fears, old perceptions and
messages surrounding yourself and the world. A willingness to
try new endeavors, and explore different belief systems within
an encouraging, supportive therapeutic environment helps
foster a spirit of receptivity to creative thought and
expression thus enriching your life experience and those of
others around you.
Self-Esteem/Assertiveness:
Establishing a positive sense of self and asserting yourself
in the world go hand and hand. Healthy self esteem encompasses
taking a realistic inventory of the attributes and weak points
of your character. It requires self acceptance, setting
realistic objectives, addressing perfectionist tendencies and
refuting messages given to you by others. Self-assertion stems
from a sense of value to both yourself and others and is a
natural outcome of achieving self worth. Offering help and
opinions, as well as, expressing your needs becomes the
inherent motivation for a fulfilling, satisfying life.
Life Threatening Illness/Oncology:
Coping with a life threatening illness poses its own special
challenges. The initial diagnosis is often met with shock and
bewilderment with questions ranging from how do I determine
the best course of treatment, to how will this effect my
family, to what will the future bring? The treatment phase
requires endurance, setting realistic objectives, and dealing
with ongoing fears. Post treatment (survivorship) entails
re-entering the “well” world with a realignment of priorities,
a shift in family/intimate relationships, and in some case an
adjustment to a new body image. Family members/caretakers have
their own set of adjustments spanning across providing direct
care, determining how and what kind of support to give, and
dealing with their own fears about the future. It is the
therapist’s role with both the patient and family to provide
support, encourage choices compatible with values systems and
life circumstances, facilitate clarity and understanding of
what a diagnosis means and its specific relevance to the
individual and family, assist with setting realistic goals,
and being present focused. In all cases open communication is
essential as diagnoses such as cancer still harbor social
anxiety leading to secrecy and confusion.
Performance Anxiety/Burnout:
Performance anxiety and burnout can be experienced by anyone
involved in the performing arts, professions that are service
oriented, or with high visibility to the public sector. The
demands of such careers can lead to high expectations both
real and imagined. The tendency towards constant scrutiny
either imposed upon by the professional or the public can
result in bouts of depression, fatigue, or addictive behavior.
In therapy, the client learns to pace her or himself,
establish healthy boundaries, employ stress reduction
techniques, and schedule in breaks and vacations. At times,
the client may feel it’s necessary to explore other career
options. In determining whether a change in profession is
required the therapist helps the client gain clarity by
reviewing values and life style choices before a decision is
finalized. The client is encouraged to take time in making
such assessments whether it be to modify what they are
currently doing, try a new approach, or pursue another
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